do u think this way?

The word live- in -relationships conjures up a world of freedom and no bondage to many. But are people really happy in such a relationship? Don't you think it is more of an escapist attitude for people who like to shirk of responsibilities? And for them the best possible mode of freedom would be to enjoy all the marital bliss without actually having been in one. All they want is the excitement. And do not want any threads attached to their life thereby giving themselves an easy access to walk out of the relationship any time they want or when they find it inconvenient.
Nowadays this concept is gaining momentum as couples consider marriage as too much of a burden and wish to break free. Well what they conveniently forget is that marriage provides the safety and the bond that is imperative. Imagine you having a row and your partner just dumping you! Where do you go? Whom do you turn to? And supposing you are unemployed then what do you do? You cannot even claim alimony!
Life does not end here… it just begins. You have the whole society shunning you, calling you names which you never even dreamt of and then quoting and portraying you as a bad example of some one and something you would never get into. I don't think any sane person would get into a relationship just to enjoy and with no afterthoughts. Also couples conveniently forget that they are living in a society that does not encourage these acts, so imagine the backlashes and repercussions of it. We must always remember that we are a part of this society and that this kind of momentary bliss will not last for long.
What most of the couples also forget is that marriage gives you the legality to give birth to children but in a live in relationship if you have children then who takes the responsibility once you leave? And whose name does the child get? Also what is the child's identity as an individual? Isn't he answerable to his peers and the society? Well these are the very points that shake the base of this concept. Activists have drilled couples on these are as for some years now but no one till date has given any convincing answer. Well if you are the types who do not want to have children and don't like any commitments then this kind of a relationship is perhaps an answer for you. But the question remains will one be happy in such a flexible relationship? What if your partner wants to sleep with someone else while you are around? On what grounds are you going to stop him? Aren't all those grounds also you are quoting flimsy?
Well whatever the reason I feel one should be very careful and should be mature enough before they make any commitment. They should rationalise and work out their marriage before they delve into one. They should also decide to what extent they want to carry on this relationship. Because in the end they have no one to blame but themselves. And they must strictly remember that they have made an informed choice and they should have the guts to abide by it!