Friday, October 07, 2005

Indian men...

And the award goes to the world’s biggest hypocrites. Their favourite shows... Baywatch, Bold and the Beautiful, Santa Barbara…. Why? Because those are the only places where the women show more skin…if you are wondering what I’m rattling about? Well the answer is the same Indian man who thinks its ok to see skin of women on TV, or in the films cannot bear to let his wife wear sleeveless, halters or anything that remotely reveals skin….

Indian men are brought up like that….its called conditioned upbringing…for them they believe there are two different types of women…one whom you can watch…willing suspension of disbelief! And another whom you should cover up and keep within the holy premises of the house. No one can lay eyes on her. The men are in an advantage…they get to see both the types of women (again classified totally by them). The women, however, are always at the mercy of these men and it’s in their prerogative where they place them. But let me tell you one thing. No Indian man will mix the two. One woman is to take home to his mother and the other one is to satisfy his oh so ever overflowing libido…

Very rarely Indian men let their women placed at home dress up in these clothes what they usually only see. If they have been deprived of visual satisfaction then the make the women at home show skin…and this can and is only permissible within the confines of the bedroom! How totally disgusting.

Why cant a woman show skin and not be termed revealing? What is so wrong in dressing up the way you want to? Why are there so many rules laid? And how come men don’t mind seeing these women who show skin and but they would never make them their wives… if they really cannot make these women their wives or give them respectable positions at home why watch them in the first place…women will definitely stop revealing. They are forced to be the way they are because that’s what the men want to see and because of the question of bread and butter. The whole industry is whether we want to believe it or not dominated and ruled by men! Then how do u expect women not to do what they are? They are only willingly complying with the demands of these very men…

The more one dwells on the topic the more disgusting it gets. Married women also are traumatised each day as they are forced to believe that since they are married they have lost all their freedom to choose what they want to wear. They have to wear what the others decide. Married women then only remain as puppets in the hands of the men of the house who then keep tugging the strings whenever the woman tends to go a little away from what they term as Normal…

All am asking is why does a woman then exist? She is not just a commodity for sexual pleasures…she is so ruled that she has no name, no identity of her own, no home for herself, no money to call her own. She is only made to depend on her man and hence she has to listen to everything he dictates. Forget the fact that she has no say in how the house should function she has no say in what she can wear too.

It’s so ironical when the world is advancing in time, technology and thinking our Indian men are where they are in the late BC’s. They are so proud of being there that they maybe they are probably waiting to catch up with the rest of the world when the earth taken a full turn again!

7 comments:

Suderman said...
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Suderman said...

ooops, i meant... i had almost forgotten you write so well! wonderful post!

karma said...

Because indian men are afraid and consider women their possession. Because indian men have this insecurity right in everything. Because indian men are sexist and cant differentiate hypocracy from tradition. And mostly because they dont think well. :-)

Anonymous said...

When I like baywatch...I was 16-18 years old...I was a teenager...now the favourite is Seinfield.
I wanted to be an Indian man...my friends made me china...
What you wrote about is apt for my four fathers - grand, great grand, my own and my chitappas(uncles).
I was duped by some indian women, far beyond imagination...I cannot genralize it...
Question: If you are talking abt Indian men alone...do you know Americans never had a woman president....
A statistical conclusion might be right today and wrong soon...
If I was to make a statistical conclusion about the amount of hits(clicks) on the pictures of aishwarya rai(clad in full clothes) and salmaan khan(half naked in his shorts). Obvious winner is Rai.
men like women more than women like men.
You might be statistically right but analytically wrong....
Men like women if they are wearing revealing clothes or clad in burkhas. Scent of a woman and voice of a woman is enough..
Opposites attract...and they are positive and negative...speaking only about the negative aspect does not mean there is nothing positive about it...In conclusion, a married man is faced by two negatives, a wife who wants more freedom and a mom who does not want to give it. Please also write about the women who do not want to grant freedom to women. Men are not the problem always...but people are.

archies world said...

sudu, aravind china..

thanks..for writing and commenting...truly apprecaiate all the comments...to each his own...

will keep writing....i swaer..

Niranjan said...

If U R true Archana, I am Ur Niranjan, pl come & meet me, I am fond of U

Anonymous said...

Who is true Archana that we have to confirm from Railway Administration and from CBI department of India.